Yesterday, I had an engaging conversation with someone I recently met (let's call him Shawn). The lively discussion eventually moved on to “sides of the brain”. I mentioned how enjoyable art classes were back in high school and explained my big idea at that time of higher education for furthering my creative learning and pursuing design as a career.
Alas, that was not to be. My parents were not supportive. My oldest brother’s girlfriend even took some of my designs to a local artist who wrote a shining letter to my parents about the talent I had and encouraged them to let me develop it.
Nope. Didn’t happen.
So I wound up being analytical instead.
Back to the conversation. We greed that we were both right brainers. I pointed out that a book I read a couple years ago, “A Whole New Mind: Right Brainers Will Rule the Future” by Daniel H. Pink, was a huge awakening for me.
I discovered that I was not alone in my "brain side confusion". According to the book many boomers were guided by their parents into left-brained professions. Doctors, lawyers, accountants, research analysts. And so it was with me as well.
Now, I’m not saying that I never like numbers. I did enjoy my corporate life. Funny thing though, I truly enjoyed the graphic part of my work and would often spend too much time making Harvard Graphics or PowerPoint look “pretty”. And more than once I was criticized for it! I found other small ways to unleash creativity as well and sure enough, much of that was smashed down too.
During one of the many seminars I took over the years (because the corporation liked you to get “out of the box” once in a while) I made a list of things I wanted to accomplish. Number one was “write a book” and I gave myself a time frame of five years to do it. Didn’t make it.
But here’s the rub. Shawn said it was a good thing I learned how to use the left side of my brain. I gained the knowledge for running my two businesses. If I was gliding along right braining it all those years, would I have the savvy required to grow those businesses into major successes?
He had a great point there!
Now I’m seeing so many boomers starting their own businesses. Makes me wonder: Did they go through what I’m going through?
I do know this. I’m in a very good position right now for growing my businesses. In fact, over the next few weeks, I’m working on revising one of my websites. Creative fun! Whee!
I’ll continue to enjoy my photography hobby, writing blogs to share with you, tie-dying t-shirts, attractively rearranging the furniture in my house (mostly mid-century modern pieces), whipping out the acrylics once in a while to get those ideas and colors out, and of course, planning my book.
I DO have an interesting concept for a work of fiction that I just started to document, so stay tuned! Right Brainers rule!
Eric Clapton sang about growth in this tune from his 461 Ocean Boulevard LP:
Hope you enjoyed!
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