Are you tired of it too?
Did you know there’s an app for that? But wait, we’ll get back to that.
A few days ago, I read a friend’s enthusiastic post on
Facebook. She saw President Obama and Vice President Biden in a crowd of 10,000
during a campaign tour. She wrote “It was a wonderful feeling being there, seeing
all of the patriotism, the community, the crowd and not one incident of
violence, not one incident of hate was reported.”
She went on to say that she was afraid of losing friends
because of her strong beliefs and convictions.
Dozens of people responded to her post. Many showed support
of the President while others were stronger on the side of freedom of speech.
Reading through the comments, I felt compelled to say something.
Now, I don’t “do”
politics within any social platforms. That’s a decision that I have adhered
to. However, I was surprised by the statement of losing friends over political
preference. Social media opens up our personal beliefs to a whole other audience beyond our in real life friends. It sometimes
appears that people conduct themselves differently when it’s not face to face;
perhaps being a little bolder in what they say or do, with a false sense of security as they lurk behind the "wall of computer".
We've all seen cat fights happen on a social network or two, fueled by strong convictions, right?
Back to our story. After much thought about how to convey my thoughts without
revealing my preferences, I wrote: "For the record, I respect everyone's choice whether or not I agree with it. If you have strong convictions for either candidate, I will not try to change your mind or be mean and nasty because of it. I applaud anyone who does their research, has come to an understanding, and has made an educated choice. You're not losing a friend here!"
I received ten likes on that comment.
Nine of the ten likes were people
I don’t know. In the next comment, I received an honorable mention from a stranger: "Gerry that's a terrific comment!"
Great! Substantiation that I said the right thing. I stand by my words above. Seriously, folks. Seeing someone's bashing of a candidate isn't going to affect my vote in the least. Those posts quickly get scrolled away. And, so are 99% of the other political posts.
Now, for those of you that want to make politics disappear, here are a few options:
- Facebook: Via Social Fixer. For steps, click here.
- Facebook: No Politics Please!
- And one that works for both Twitter and Facebook, Unpolitic.me
Richie Havens sang about freedom. We, as individuals, have the right to choose. Our choices stem from our own free well. And we shouldn't be chastised for them. This applies to subject matter far beyond politics.
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7 comments:
Thanks for the info. I've just been hiding the political BS from my news. It's a real problem. I have a "friend" who keeps endorsing me on LinkedIn. To be polite I should return the favor but, he's a political extremist and has "liked" anti-Semitic articles. I can't have my business in any way associated with that!
Thanks for your comment. The "friend" on LinkedIn is already connected to you, otherwise they couldn't leave endorsements on your profile. While it's nice to receive endorsements, the connection is visible between you and your "friend" and can be seen by anyone perusing your profile. Is this a connection that you really want to have?
I agree totally. Social media is NOT where I go to listen to political opinions... Or to see candidate bashing of any kind. The divisiveness only gets worse when the cloak of Internet "anonymity" encourages people to say what they would never say face-to-face. Some of my best friends hold entirely different views than mine.... But isn't that what democracy is all about? Take time to talk... Face to face...you'll find you are NOT that far apart.
But PLEASE don't clog my twitter stream! Great post, Gerry!
R.
I think it is great if someone wants to show their political colors, even if I don't agree, because I want them to be involved. The bummer is when folks of opposing views write little negative comments. That is bad form.
Yes, the "clogging" of Twitter streams and newsfeeds. Will it stop after the election?
All the political commentary is a huge turn off, and has had an impact on whether or not I return to certain folks pages. Leaning towards not...
I vote for that!
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